Patience vs. CHOP

I'm going crazy.  Either I chop it or I grow it out.  Long vs. Short.  Beautiful/Men-Will-Eat-Out-Of-My-Hands vs. Fun and Feminine.  It's down to a choice.  Either I stick to growing it out, or I stick to keeping it short for a while.  I refuse to do the chop-then-hate-myself-and-start-growing-it-out-nastyness.

Opinions?

 (chop)

(patience)